It is an obvious and undisputed fact that as humans we have our choices and what we are attracted to. However the question is the choices we make, are they the best for us?
It is natural for one to like something so dearly that you find it almost impossible to let go but that which we are going after, how well will it go with us at the long run? Life is too short and full of pressure for one to be regretting over a choice rashly made.
Okay, let's cut to the chase, what is this all about? Ladies, think of it, the burden of a relationship, especially marriage lies on the woman which implies that the woman needs the best care she deserves to enable her shoulder her enormous responsibility. However, how many ladies put that into consideration before embarking on this supposed life long adventure?
The most handy and easy to get advice is always "follow your heart", but is that an ideology or a fact?
It is natural for one to like something so dearly that you find it almost impossible to let go but that which we are going after, how well will it go with us at the long run? Life is too short and full of pressure for one to be regretting over a choice rashly made.
Okay, let's cut to the chase, what is this all about? Ladies, think of it, the burden of a relationship, especially marriage lies on the woman which implies that the woman needs the best care she deserves to enable her shoulder her enormous responsibility. However, how many ladies put that into consideration before embarking on this supposed life long adventure?
The most handy and easy to get advice is always "follow your heart", but is that an ideology or a fact?
When you love someone whose love for you is undisputed, that is a perfect scenario though its occurrence is not often. But the reality of things is when you a lady are going after a man whose love for you is questioned while you are being followed around by a man who is ready to give anything to have you. From my little analysis, if you end up with the one who you love but the reciprocation is not forthcoming nature has it that you endlessly try to please him which requires so much energy. But don't forget that once you start having kids, your love and attention will be shared and since you are the one holding up the union, the case will become something to really look into.
Well, that is my opinion, you may have yours. All I need is clarity to this puzzle which is as a woman, who will you choose, the one you love or the one that loves you. Please I need your feedback. Thanks
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